Thursday, March 20, 2014
A Favour Asked?
Hello lovelies, hope you are having a good day.
Today I feel like sharing with you, one of my experiences with guys or rather suitors *don't laugh*. I met this guy through one of my old friends, after a while we started dating not like I was serious, just that most times when a guy pleads too much, I could be like *ok, let me just keep him there! spread your wings, lol* straight to the story........ After a year and few months, he told me he wanted to marry and I was like I know but I'm not interested.....no hard feelings....the truth was that I wasn't feeling him, he wasn't one that my heart approved of, he had small issues I didn't think I could endure or tolerate not to talk of marriage because to me , marriage is a school you attend with no graduation but comes with series of carryover...... *i talk too much....the gist* He started telling me stories of how he happens to be doing me a Favour, since I'm still young......so many things he said and I felt like slapping the demons in him....... Truth be told.....
A lot of men think they are doing women a favour by asking for her hand in marriage, but lets think about this : she changes her name,changes her home,leaves her family,moves in with him, builds a home with him, gets pregnant for him,pregnancy changes her body,she gets fat,almost gives up in the labor room due to the unbearable pains of child birth,even the kids she delivers bear his name.Till the day she dies...everything she does, (cooking, cleaning your house, taking care of his parents,bringing up his children, earning, advising him, ensuring he can be relaxed, maintaining all family relations, everything that benefit he.....sometimes at the cost of her own health , hobbies and beauty. So who is really doing whom a favour? Men really need to appreciate the women in their lives always, coz it is not easy to be a woman.
*Being a woman is priceless, don't forget that, sweethearts *
Have a nice day